SlowleyButShirley Blogs
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Six Major Red Flags You Shouldn’t Avoid
Rubies, Roses, Sports Cars! Red can be an appealing color. One that makes you awe and gawk. “Red attracts the most attention and is associated
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My First Sex Toy: 5 Things I Wish I knew
I remember the build-up, going back and forth with myself. Contemplating if it was even worth the hassle. Truthfully I hadn't really masturbated, just a
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The fleeing of vulnerability – An essay from a Mad Black Woman
Crazy. Obsessed. Delusional. Attached. These words labeled across my black flesh at any moment of vulnerability. The act of vulnerability has consequences if you look
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Let’s play a game – you’re gonna want to break out the Halloween costume for this
Halloween is around the corner, and most of us are prepared to be sexy something’s. Whether we have our angel wings or elf ears or
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Are You Addicted to Love? 20 question quiz
Yes, you read the title correctly. Just like drug and alcohol addiction, love can be just as consuming. The study titled "The NeuroImaging of love"
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How Porcelain redesigned the way we experience pleasure
With hesitation, society is beginning to embrace the inescapable desire for sexual pleasure. That means more bedside drawers are filling up with pleasure toys. Although
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My Partner has vaginismus: How To Support
There isn’t a ton of research out there but having some insight on vaginismus, which I’ve written previously about can allow you a glimpse of
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Fear is the unknown: What are sti’s and how to destroy stigmas
We try so hard to avoid this conversation with our friends, partners, and EVEN our doctors. Talking about your last great fuck is easy! Talking
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Vaginismus- What is it and can it go away?
Vaginismus is a condition involving a muscle spasm in the pelvic floor muscles. It can make it painful, difficult, or impossible to have sexual intercourse,
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Dial up: How to have hot phone sex during a pandemic
With COVID-19 and social distancing being the new way of life, people are having less sex but people aren’t any less horny! A good way